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Kissing is sweet and romantic and most kisses only last a second or two.!
Being a truly great kisser doesn’t come down to a straightforward set of rules, even if you’ve got years of making out under your belt: It all comes down to chemistry, what you’re into, and honestly, a good amount of luck.
One person’s meltingly romantic kiss might be another’s cringiest slobberfest—or you might find that the person you’re frenching shows you a brand-new way to do it that makes you absolutely melt.
“Kissing is weird,” Chamin Ajjan, LCSW, a Brooklyn-based cognitive behavioral therapist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, and the author of Seeking Soulmate: Ditch The Dating Game and Find Real Connection, tells SELF.
Those makeout sessions?
“There’s no clear explanation of how or why we started sticking our mouths together, and why that’s desirable.” (It’s true: Theories abound, but no one actually knows much for sure outside of, “It probably has something to do with mating,” which…yeah, we know!)
Mysterious as it may be, kissing rules—and especially when you relax a bit about exactly how to be a good kisser, according to Ajjan.
“Often, we’re thinking, ‘Am I doing this right? Are they enjo
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